When a man begins spanking
his wife - under the Spencer Plan - he is
apt to overdo the thing just at first.
The same thing goes for women when they
first begin the practice of whipping their
husbands. The very novelty of the thing -
their new sense of power - often causes them
to be too zealous in the application of
their rights.
This should be carefully guarded against.
No woman wants to be spanked more often than
it is necessary for her own good - and no
man wants to be whipped indiscriminately.
Too frequent application of the new
doctrines destroys their effectiveness.
Remember this carefully.
On the other hand - after a definite list of
causes has been established - don't be lax
in administering the discipline! Understand
what I mean?
First of all - get together and talk things
over thoroughly. Have an understanding. Know
just what you are doing. Agree upon it.
Don't leave anything to chance - to the whim
of the moment.
Suppose for example, the husband is a fast
automobile driver. He likes speed - likes to
drive the family car too fast for safety.
His wife recognizes the danger, and one of
her "Causes" is "Fast Driving." She informs
him that she is going to write onto her list
that he must not drive over forty miles an
hour and if he does, she will whip him for
it!
Many women are doing this very thing since
the various Safety Campaigns have been
inaugurated and I think it is a mighty fine
and sensible thing to do!
All right, she has delivered her ultimatum.
If he drives over forty miles an hour, she
will whip him. And she should, every time.
That is what I mean about not being lax.
When a cause has been violated - when either
party needs the discipline - see to it that
they get it. Don't be lenient or lax - for
their sake! It is the only way you can truly
help them.
Let each make out a written list of the
faults they wish could be eradicated in the
other.
Talk the thing over sensibly. Then sign
written Agreements, such as I give you a
little later in this Course - and live up to
them to the letter. It calls for real
sportsmanship - real, honest-to-goodness
cooperation - and any man or woman should be
proud to have a marriage partner, big
hearted enough, and big souled enough, to
display it!
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